Question: My son wants to do an inner city missions program. This program asks for each participant to raise support. I don’t think my son feels comfortable asking for support. What’s the best way to handle asking, and is it biblical to ask for support?

Answer: It certainly is biblical to ask for support. The apostle Paul encouraged believers to support those in need (see 2 Corinthians 8:1-15). He also made it clear that those who “sow generously” by giving to God’s work will also “reap generously” (2 Corinthians 9:6). But people should never give out of compulsion or reluctantly, “for God loves a cheerful giver” (2 Cor. 9:7).

The best way we have seen for young people to raise support is to write a letter explaining what they will be doing. If the people who receive the letter feel called to give, they will. If not, they won’t, and your son shouldn’t feel bad about asking. In fact, by asking, he is giving them an opportunity to “reap generously.”

Let the Lord work on those who are asked. Your son isn’t responsible for their response. He is only responsible to do what he believes God wants him to do. This will be a great learning experience for your son. He will learn how important—and how rewarding—it is to depend on the Lord for his needs.